The Power of Believing in What you Deserve

 There is something incredibly transformative about truly believing in your worth. The moment you start to know not just hope - that you deserve good things in life, everything begins to shift. Your evergy changes. your mindset evolves. And most importantly, the world around you starts to respond differently. 

The quote:
"You will be amazed at what you attract after you start believing in what you deserve,"

is more than just a feel good sentiment - It is a powerful truth.

1. Belief Shapes Your Reality

When you believe you are undeserving,  you subconsciously accept less. You settle - for relationships, opportunities, and circumstances that are far below your potential. But when your belief shifts, when you say, "I deserve peace,, respect, love and success" your boundaries grow stronger. Your standards rise and your decisions reflect that new inner conviction. 

2. You Attract What You are Ready For

The universe meets you at your level of self worth. If you walk around feeling small and unworthy, you will attract people and situations that reinforce that belief,. But once you believe in your value, your energy changes - and so does what you attract. Better relations, healthier environments, meaningful opportunities. Not because things suddenly appear out of nowhere, but because you now recognize and reach for what aligns with your WORTH.

3. Deserving Is not Arrogance - It is Self Respect

Believing you deserve good things does not make you selfish or arrogant. It is about honouring yourself. It is about saying, "I matter. My dreams matter. My peace matters."  That shift opens doors that you never even noticed before because now you believe you are allowed to walk through them. 

4. Start With Small Acts of Deserving

You do not need to overhaul your life in one day. Start small. Say NO to things that drain you. Say YES to moments that nourish you. Speak kindly to yourself. Choose environments and people that uplift you. Each small step builds a foundation of self belief. 

Reflection Journal Prompts:
  • What are somethings in life I have accepted that I now realize I did not truly deserve?
  • What does a life I deserve look and feel like?
  • What boundaries do I need to set to reflect my self worth?
  • What in my life can I begin acting as though I believe I deserve better? 
Reflection Journal Prompts:
  • What are some things in life I have accepted that I now realize I did not truly deserve?
  • What does a life I deserve look and feel like?
  • What boundaries do I need to set to reflect my self worth?
  • Where in my life can I begin acting as though I behave I deserve better?
Believing in what you deserve is not about entitlement - it is about empowerment. When you raise your inner standard, life rises to meet  you. So take a moment today to look within, reframe your worth, and open y ourself up to receive all that you truly deserve. Because once you believe in your worth, the world has no choice but to believe it too. 

 

 

 

 

 

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