When the Clouds Leaave, the Sun Shines Brighter

 While browsing through Facebook I came across the quote - 

    "Some people are like clouds. When they disappear, it is a beautiful day."

I could not control my wide smile. It felt a bit light hearted. But beneath the humour, there lies a truth that I had lived a lot of times. 

The "Cloud" in my life
There was a time in my life when I had a friend - I am naming her A - who always brings in stress into every situation. She was not a bad person. But in fact she was funny charming and is full of bubbling energy and share lots of stories. But every conversation we had with her is full of gossip, complaints or judgement - about others, about life and sometimes even about me. 

After the calls with her, I started feeling anxious. I felt my energy dipping and I would doubt myself or feel irritated for no reason. Still, I clung on, thinking: "We have been friends for quite long and she is going through some phase.". But that phase never ended. And worse, I realized I was beginning to absorb her negativity. My mind was cluttered. My peace got disturbed. 

A time came when I had to decide and make a choice - my peace or my guilt. 

It was not that easy, but I distanced myself gradually and respectfully. I started to stop answering al the calls that she made. Gradually I noticed something, it was so profound. I felt lighter. My days started being quiet and I felt I am under glorious sunshine. The days started becoming beautiful

The Difference the Sun Makes
In contrast, when ever I think of my other friend S who is not loud or flashy. She is always calm, soft and listens deeply. She speaks kindly and always brings in a warmth with her presence. One hour with her I had always felt rejenuvated. No energy drain but only mental boost. 

When I spend time with S, I feel more of myself. My thoughts are clearer. My heart is lighter. Life feels manageable.

That is the profound difference. Some people are clouds. Some are sunshine. 

Why we let the clouds stay
We often allow emotional clouds to linger because we are conditioned to be loyal. To be kind. To not "give up" on people. But there is a gentle truth to hold close:

You can love people and still choose not to let them disturb your inner weather - inner peace. 

Letting go does not mean hate. It means choosing alignment. Peace and sanity. 

 Journal Prompts that could help you analyze more
  • Who in your life makes you feel lighter after spending time with them?
  • Is there someone whose presence consistently leaves you feeling confused, anxious or low?
  • What would it look like to love that person from a distance - without letting them affect your peace?
  • How can you create more space in your life for people who are light sunlight?
Never let go off the right people. And don't feel bad for letting go the wrong people. You are not heartless. Letting them go makes room for the right ones and heals us more. Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do for yourself is to let the clouds pass, so you can truly see the sky. 

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