Forgive, But Don’t Forget

 Forgiveness sets you free. Memory keeps you wise.

There is an old saying that goes, “Forgive and Forget”. But life teaches us something different. Forgive - yes. But never forget what it taught you.

Forgiveness is an internal release. It’s the act of unhooking yourself from. The weight of resentment. When you forgive, you are not saying what happenned was Okay but you are saying to yourself. And to others that “You are choosing peace over poison”.

But forgetting? That is a different story…..

Because every painful moment, every betrayal, every disappointment - carries a hidden lesson. Sometimes its is about boundaries. Sometimes it is about trusting your gut feeling. And often, it is about learning who truly needs and deserves your energy.

If you forget what actually happened and how you felt at that moment, you might heal - but the chance and risk of repeating the same mistake is high. If you remember, you carry forward the wisdom. 

Forgiveness is a wisdom, and Memory acts as a tool.

Both together form the foundation of growth. One softens your heart, the other sharpens your vision.

So YES FORGIVE - for your own PEACE.
But don’t FORGET - for your PROTECTION.

LET THE PAST BE YOUR TEACHER.

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